There are very few parenting subjects that me and Mrs.GMIBP disagree on. And I would suspect that this argument goes on across the nation. Co-sleeping is the worse! I'm not worried about rolling on a baby, and I'm not assuming "sexy time", I just like my space.
I understand that mothers like cuddling with their babies, but guess what there is a really nice nursery that I painted and built furniture for that goes unused. Don't get me wrong I am fond of my kids I adore them, but I like sleeping where its slightly cold. And babies are like hot water bottles.
Parenting magazines and Mommy blogs are all for it. But read dad blogs all I see is frustrated acceptance. Though people never talk about it, the dark secret of parents I'm all for falling asleep on the sofa together, but that is cozy time I just like it
When Nugget climbs into the bed also (of course Belushi is already there), I can go sleep on the sofa. It is a pretty nice sofa.